Do you want to become a good human?
If yes, then “How to Be a Good Human” by Nikki Hainstock, the author of “The Shaman Wears Lipstick,” is a perfect starting point.
This book offers a heartfelt, practical guide to help each one of us cultivate life-changing habits. These habits and everyday practices redefine how we relate to ourselves and others—in a way that will all culminate in being “good human.”
While you might take this book as a self-help manual, let me tell you it is more than that. In fact, “How to Be a Good Human” is a unique, fresh, and innovative approach or invitation to engage deeply with life’s intricacies and your humanity.
Hainstock starts with the deceptively simple idea of practice. From learning to walk as an infant to mastering professional skills, the essence of growth lies in consistent effort. In light of this, through relatable anecdotes, she encourages us to abandon the unrealistic pursuit of perfection and embrace the beauty of progress. Her emphasis on practice transcends physical acts and includes the art of kindness, vulnerability, and emotional awareness.
Another standout concept of this book is showing up. Hainstock reminds us that presence is a gift we give to ourselves and others. Whether it’s being fully present in a conversation or showing up for our responsibilities with integrity, the act of being there for someone who needs our presence is transformative—it universally resonates with anyone, especially in a digitally distracted age where every other person is limited to screens and digital mediums.
Moreover, Hainstock’s chapter on listening will strike a chord in your heart. She underscores the rarity of truly listening to understand rather than to reply. By quieting our inner turmoil and other negative concerns and leaning into others’ stories and life aspects, this book showcases how we can foster a culture of empathy and mutual respect that will benefit all of us throughout this life.
Her writing is approachable yet profound, filled with quotes and insights that anchor her lessons. This book becomes a medium to help us cultivate a positive aura, an optimistic sense of self and perception, and view life as an opportunity to improve and be better and better, day after day.
Finally, the book’s appeal lies in its simplicity. Each chapter distills timeless principles into digestible, easy-to-read, and manageable steps. From forgiveness to courage, empathy, music, and whatnot—this book highlights various aspects that we can use to attune our physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.
While some of its teachings may feel familiar, it is Hainstock’s authentic and original voice that breathes new life into these universal truths. For anyone seeking personal growth or improved relationships, How to Be a Good Human is a beacon of hope—a book to redefine the meaning of “good human,” a soul who can make this world a better place.
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